Can Back Pain From a Car Accident be Relieved Through Emotional Healing?
The names in this story have been changed to protect the privacy of the people involved.
As we checked in to the hotel we talked with the woman behind the desk about our plans for the week. I told Susan we were the featured speakers for The Gathering that was being held at the hotel that weekend and gave her some background information about us. I explained that the main focus of The Gathering was supernatural healing. She attends a Charismatic church and wanted to know more about healing so we talked for a while. I was tired from the trip and wanted to get to our room and unpack our bags so I pulled out a copy of my book Divine Healing Made Simple from one of our bags, autographed it, and handed it to Susan. “We’ll be here for nine days,” I said. “We’d be more than happy to answer any questions you have.” She thanked us and we went to our room.
The following day I received a message from a woman named Emily who works behind the registration desk at night. She found Susan’s copy of the book and began reading it. When she was halfway through the book she contacted me through Facebook and asked for prayer. She’s been suffering from chronic back pain from four different car accidents and she asked about emotional healing. We set up a meeting at Anna Wingate’s house for prayer on Sunday afternoon. (Anna is the organizer for the Gathering.)
When Emily arrived at Anna’s house we spent about 10 minutes getting to know her. When you make an appointment for healing or deliverance and evil spirits are involved, it is not unusual to feel fear, anxiety, and an increase of the symptoms you want to be healed of as the appointment time draws near. Evil spirits are aware of what’s going on as the time of healing and deliverance draws near. They know their time is short and they frequently manifest as increased fear, anxiety, and pain just before or during the healing encounter. Their goal is to frighten their host, hoping to get them to cancel the appointment. Emily had been feeling some anxiety that morning. When I asked how her back pain was doing she said, “My back feels like it’s on fire.”
We had Emily sit on a couch with Anna on her left and my wife on her right. I sat in a chair and observed as Anna ministered emotional healing to her. Most people who do emotional healing follow a script, which gives them a pre-planned set of instructions for the healing process. Anna has a script that she uses often and it works for her. I have a different script that I recently developed that I had been using during The Gathering.
Anna’s script includes questions about things like witchcraft and Freemasonry in a person’s family history, as well as discerning generational sins and/or curses. Other parts of her script include walking the person through forgiveness for anyone who has offended them and a meeting with the Father. When Anna was done with her prayer session I asked if I might try my own approach. Emily agreed to have me pray with her.
There are many different approaches to emotional healing. Each method has its own strengths and weaknesses. The script that I use is very specific. My goal is to identify the negative emotions a person is feeling and have Jesus heal them. I began by asking Emily if she had been abused either sexually, physically, or verbally as a child. I started with this question because it seems to be the most common cause of emotional wounds. Emily said she had been verbally and physically abused by her father. Most approaches to inner healing would have her forgive her father. Forgiveness is an important part of the process, but she had already forgiven him. Forgiving others does not heal the wound in our soul caused by the emotions we feel toward them. So rather than focus on forgiveness, I focused on healing the specific emotions she was feeling.
The next step in the process is to have the person recall a specific event where this emotion is strongly felt. When they’re feeling the emotion, I have them tell me what the emotion is. I asked Emily if she could recall a specific event from her past that evoked a strong negative emotion. She recalled a birthday from her childhood where her father promised to take her out for dinner. That night he went to a bar and got drunk and forgot about her. When he came home she asked if he would take her out for her birthday. He grudgingly agreed to take her to McDonald’s, but as she walked to the car he kicked her all the way to the car. “So when you recall your father kicking you, what emotion comes to mind?”
“Worthlessness.” She replied.
Once we’ve identified an emotion, I have the person repeat after me as I lead them through a simple script that asks Jesus for healing. “Okay Emily, I want you to repeat after me. Jesus, I ask you to take this feeling of worthlessness from me.” She repeated what I said. “ I don’t want it anymore. I ask you to heal the wound in my soul caused by it.” Again she repeated what I said. “In place of worthlessness, I ask you to give me honor.” She repeated my words again. “ Jesus, I receive your healing.” She repeated this and when she was done I had her recall the event with her father again.
“So there you are, waiting for your father to come home. He gets there and you ask if he’ll take you out for dinner. You’re on your way to the car and he’s kicking you. What emotion do you feel?”
“I guess… It’s just disappointment.”
“Okay, we’re going to do the same thing for disappointment. Just repeat after me. Jesus, I ask you to take this feeling of disappointment from me. I don’t want it anymore. I ask you to heal the wound in my soul caused by it. In place of disappointment, I ask you to give me hope. Jesus, I receive your healing.” When she had said these words after me I asked her again to recall the event with her father and tell me what emotion she felt.
“Okay, we’re going to do the same thing with fear, just repeat after me. Jesus, I ask you to take the feeling of fear from me. I don’t want it anymore. I ask you to heal the wound in my soul caused by it. In place of fear, I ask you to give me courage. Jesus, I receive your healing.” When she was finished saying these words I asked her again to recall the event with her father and tell me what emotion she felt.
She paused for a moment and finally said, “Nothing. I can remember it all, but there aren’t any emotions I can really feel.”
“Cool. That means you’re healed of the wounds in your soul from that event. Let’s move on to the next one. You said you had been married twice. Did either of your ex-husbands abuse you?”
“Yes. They both did.”
“What kind of abuse was it, did they hit you, or was it verbal abuse?”
“Both my ex-husbands hit me and we got into a lot of arguments.”
“Okay. We’re going to do the same thing. Is there one event with your most recent ex-husband that causes you to feel a strong negative emotion?” She told me about how they would argue and her ex-husband would punch her in the face to end the argument. “Okay Emily, so there you are with your husband and you get into another argument. It escalates into a yelling match and he punches you in the face. Tell me what emotion you’re feeling.”
“Anger.” She replied as tears streamed down her cheeks.
“Okay, we are going to do the same thing with anger that we did with the other emotions. Just repeat after me. Jesus, I ask you to take the feeling of anger from me. I don’t want it anymore. I ask you to heal the wound in my soul caused by it. In place of anger, I ask you to give me peace. Jesus, I receive your healing.” When she was finished I had her take a short break because she was crying. After she regained her composure, I asked her again to recall the argument with her ex-husband and tell me what emotion she felt.
“Hurt. That’s the only way I can describe it.”
“Okay. We’ll go with that. Are you ready?”
“Yes, I‘m ready.”
“Jesus, I ask you to take the feeling of hurt from me. I don’t want it anymore. I ask you to heal the wound in my soul caused by it. In place of hurt I ask you to give me healing. Jesus, I receive your healing.” She repeated each sentence after me. When she was done we went back to the same event. “Okay Emily, so there you are with your husband and you get into another argument and he punches you in the face. Tell me what emotion you’re feeling.”
“Okay. We’re going to get rid of fear whenever you’re ready.”
“Okay, repeat after me. Jesus, I ask you to take the feeling of fear from me. I don’t want it anymore. I ask you to heal the wound in my soul caused by it. In place of fear I ask you to give me confidence. Jesus, I receive your healing.” When she was done I had her recall the argument one more time. “What emotion do you feel?”
“I’m not really feeling anything this time.”
“Awesome. So those emotional wounds are healed. Thank you Jesus! Let’s move on to your first husband. Is there any event from your first marriage that causes strong negative emotions?” She told me about an event that caused similar feelings to those she had when she got into a fight with her second husband. We followed the same steps as before. She identified each emotion and asked Jesus to heal them then we went back into the memory of the event to see what emotions were left, until all the negative emotions were gone.
“I have a question for you Emily. How does your back feel right now?”
“It feels really good,” She said with a beaming smile. “It was really bad when I got here, but now there’s just a little pain right here,” She said pointing to a spot on her right side in the middle of her back.
“Now that we’ve removed the rights that the spirit of pain had to afflict you, it should be easy to heal the pain you still have.” I had her stand up and we prayed a quick prayer for her back to be healed and the pain immediately left.
I gave her a short lesson on why back pain from a car accident would require emotional healing, which I’ll summarize next:
Evil spirits are very opportunistic, like most predators. Predators take advantage of weakness because weakness gives an advantage to a predator. A shark becomes aggressive when it smells blood in the water. Vultures gather around dying animals. Demons flock to people who are suffering trauma; both physical and emotional, because trauma weakens us physically and emotionally.
Emotional trauma causes fragmentation of the soul which results in wounds in the soul itself. It also causes the development of memory fragments and/or alternate personalities, or alters. When we engage in emotional healing, we’re dealing with the fragmented parts of the soul and the emotional wounds.
Strong negative emotions in our souls allow opportunities for demons to torment us. I refer to this as a demon’s “legal right” to harass us, though some people object to the use of this term because they feel demons have no legal rights to us whatsoever. Call it whatever you want; when we hold onto negative emotions like shame, guilt, anger, fear, etc. these emotions provide a place of attachment for demons. Healing the emotional wounds removes the point of attachment for demons. Once demons have nothing to hold onto, healing is much easier and in some cases, the healing a person is seeking manifests as soon as the emotional wounds are healed.
The reason why I ask people to recall a traumatic event is that I’m trying to heal that particular part (fragment) of their soul that is holding onto that emotion. In order for a fragment to be healed, it must come to the forefront of the person’s consciousness. When I have them recall the event and feel the emotion, I’m working with that part of the soul responsible for that emotion.
When Emily had her car accident, she may have suffered physiological damage to her body, but she also suffered emotional damage to her soul. The most likely scenario is that an evil spirit or two attached themselves to her soul at the time of the accident, using whatever negative emotions she experienced as their point of attachment. As time passed and her physical injuries were healed, the pain in her back remained because the emotional wounds were still there, providing a home for spirits of pain. Unlike physical wounds that heal over time, emotional wounds remain in our souls until they are healed by Jesus. As long as an emotional wound remains intact, the symptoms caused by the spirits attached to the wounds will not leave. The only way to have the symptoms healed is to have the emotional wounds healed.
I used this same approach to heal the emotional wounds of several other women during The Gathering and in each case, the person was not able to feel the negative emotions afterward.
One woman that my wife and I prayed with had been having a lot of problems with her marriage. She said her husband treats her more like a brother than a wife. There hasn’t been any romance between them in years. We used this approach to heal her of the emotional wounds related to the way her husband treats her. She came to the brunch on Sunday morning with a glowing smile and handed me a gift bag. “Something big happened last night. I thought I’d buy you two a gift to show you my appreciation. There are two gifts in the bag. The first is for you. The second is for your beautiful wife. When I was leaving this morning to come here, my husband said he loves me…TWICE!!” She walked in a new air of confidence that definitely wasn’t there the night before.
For more information, check out my book Emotional Healing in 3 Easy Steps.
I praise God that He gave you these methods, and I thank you for sharing them with us.
This process, or script, as you call it, makes so much sense. I’ve long wondered why healings seem to get undone over time and “return”. I’ve never had the connection between emotional healings and physical healings explained to me. I also am amazed at the process itselt, how you begin with the most current and most intense incident, and work your way down through the related elements, beginning with the emotional injuries, and finishing with the physical until the healing is total and complete.
Thank you for sharing this.
Thanks for dropping by Lew. I’m blessed to have friends who were kind enough to teach me these concepts and one of them walked me through my own emotional healing. Once you go through it yourself, it all makes sense and it becomes easier to help others.
funny i saw this today of all days, i suddenly woke up with such intense back pain that i dont know what happened. i would appreciate your prayers. thanks.
I am interested in knowing if you have ever done a “study” to see if the people who have gone through emotional healing as you described, continue over time to have no feelings.
Say, 3 months down the road, or more…Thanks 🙂
Amy – I’ve been using this approach for less that two months. (Thanks for letting me try it with you.) 🙂 I haven’t had a chance to do a study yet. Not sure I ever will, though if someone wanted to fund one, I’d be up for it. Incidentally, I spoke with the woman who was healed in this story several weeks later and she’s feeling great physically and emotionally.
Great stuff. Want to see way more of that. I still love to tell the story of Ronia, who was checked into hospital with a mysterious spine fracture that started to make this young mother and wife to a pastor paralysed. We talked a few minutes and the Holy Spirit directed us right into a pain in her past she hadent even shared with her husband: severe abuse as a young girl. We went there and with many tears she could forgive and we even blessed the ones that abused her. 20 minutes after I arrived she got up and walked. For a month they sent her from hospital to hospital, because they were puzzled. She still walks today, her dignity restored.
I like your description of demon attachment. For years people have taught that demons are either IN you or they aren’t and that they can’t be IN you if you have the Holy Spirit IN you.
Thank you for this info! I just went through several emotional memories the way you describe above and I really felt the presence of the Lord! We’ll see if healing comes soon!