A Crash Course in Self-Healing
A frequent question I receive from those who are new to healing is whether we can heal ourselves, or whether we need to have someone pray for us to be healed. Since there aren’t clear examples in the Bible of self-healing, I’d like to share a personal experience:
One night, as I went to bed, I developed sudden pain in my lower back that radiated down the back of my left leg. I’d never had this type of pain before, but I knew from transporting people with these symptoms, it was consistent with a herniated lumbar disc. The pain was severe and for a moment I panicked, thinking I’d done something to injure my back.
As I thought about the pain, I remembered that God had been speaking to me about pain returning after healing. This was a new concept at the time. (I was new to healing and had only been praying with people for about a year.) On a hunch, I took the position (in my mind) that the pain I felt was not actually a herniated disc, but an imitation of that pain, caused by a demon. I told myself repeatedly, “I do not have a herniated disc.” Suspecting an evil spirit was at work, I commanded the spirit to leave. I didn’t address the bones, nerves, or other structures in my back. I focused completely on the spirit I believed was causing the pain. After ten minutes, the pain left, but it returned 20 minutes later. When it returned, I repeated the same process and had my wife join me in the battle. We went to war against the spirit, repeatedly commanding it to leave. The pain would leave for a while, only to return later. This went on for two hours.
I became exhausted and I realized had to go to sleep—even if the pain was still there. I decided to rebuke the spirit one last time and commanded it not to return. When I went to sleep, the pain was as bad as it had been all night. But when I awoke in the morning, I was pleasantly surprised to find I had no pain. It disappeared overnight and never returned. I learned a great deal from this experience.
I learned that we can indeed heal ourselves. I also learned that we can have the symptoms of a condition that perfectly mimics the condition itself, with no actual injury or disease process in our body. A demon can create a near-perfect imitation of a real medical condition.
I also learned that one key to victory over the enemy lies in what we believe and what we say. I refused to believe or admit that I had a herniated disc—even though the symptoms felt exactly like it.
I also learned that although we might see the complete removal of a spirit and the symptoms it causes, it doesn’t mean they won’t return. And if the symptoms return, the strategy that worked the first time can be used again, as often as needed, until the spirit realizes we aren’t going to allow it to afflict us.
I’ve used these principles many times since then. Whether it’s a headache, cancer, a sprained ankle, or some other sickness or injury, the authority we’ve been given by Jesus over sickness and evil spirits works as well on us as it does on others.
If you’d like more information on healing, you might check out my book Divine Healing Made Simple.
Yes, this has been my experience too. Thank you for the confirmation! God bless you!! Our Abba Father is amazing and we have been given every good endowment and every perfect spiritual gift to live in FREEDOM!! Praise God!!!!!!!
Hello. I’ve been telling people for years that you can heal yourself. God gave all of us the gift to heal ourselves. I used to have Tourette Syndrome and was on heavy narcotics as a kid to combat the neurological tics. I told myself I no longer had the disease and after a period of time,it was gone.
Love and light to all.
I was just asking God a few minutes ago about this and His answer came through your post. It’s also funny how the word Authority is highlighted in your post because I had an image flash in my mind with the word authority highlighted. Amazing!
Greetings Minister Michael!
I have begun reading snippets from your books. I am anxious to read them all. I thank God for the connection and am excited about what He is doing through you! Forever in God’s service,
Minister Beverly Jones
Excellent I TOO HAVE HAD TO COMMAND EVIL SPIRITS TO LEAVE ME IN JESUS’S NAME FOR MANY ILLNESSES AND SO CALLED MENTAL HEALTH. YES THEY KEEP AFFLICTING ME ON/OFF ESPECIALLY AT MOMENT CONFUSION, DOUBLE MINDEDNESS ABOUT WHETHER TO GO BACK TO AUSTRALIA [BEEN HERE ONLY 5 WEEKS] IF I DID GO BACK MY HUSBAND WOULD BE DEVESTSTED AND ME TOO THAT I HURT HIM. HAVING TROUBLE MOVING FORWARD WITH MY LIFE TILL MY LORD AND GOD SHOWS ME HIIS WILL, SO OVERWHELMING.. THANK YOU FOR THIS BLOG.. SPOT ON.
Hey thanks so much for writing this book. Ive got pnes but its caused from severe sexually abuse from my father and many others growing up. Ive only had 4 grand mal seizures and ive had so much pray ministry etc etc im also currently writing my autobiography. I have normal eggs scans, cat scans and normal brain activity but i wonder if i should be getting pray or more pray on the seizures etc? Ill order your book too because im very involed with broken people and havnt had much pray ministry training. Thanks so much 🙂 laurie anne
Hi Laurie, I recently attended some classes by Frank Hanks who focuses on healing from the perspective of wounded spiris, broken hearts – caused by years of abuse, painful words spoke,, trauma, hurts..etc.. – I’ve seen a 25year-old man totally freed from 10 years of debilitating pain just after Frank prayed to free him from the emotional abuse he had when he was a teen, the pain of divorce of his parents and abuse from his father, abandoned by mother….He went through all sorts of tests and scans – they found nothing. But in just one prayer over the bondage of all the hurts and pains, the spirits tormenting him left and his physical ailments were gone. Please seek help from people who can help with inner healing and emotional rescue. Hope this helps!
I liked it. I found it to be true in the Biblical sense-yes, there ARE real symptoms of faux conditions-esotericly speaking, as well as mundane. I found it to be true while bouncing your articulation off Quantum mechanics/laws of physics. This is why when you A) have a symptom that you have cleverly discerned to be in the natural, yet also as being a synthetic mutation/manifestation of energy, low vibrational frequency, or as you had coined, “demon.” It’s interesting, so interesting to learn how to corrolate meta-physics with Biblical terminologies. Understanding the scientific grid, the actual measurable quantum field, behind what Jesus, and the Apostle Paul tried so hard to communicate with the people. The miracles, the thought processes, ALL what true believers know as “Faith.” So many times in my life I knew that I knew that I had faith, and that it was visible to my Creator, but something never the less kept silent in the earth. Probably the only miracles I have preformed have been on myself, of in my own life, but the important part is B) the fact that we can literally, no longer figuratively, measure faith-by means of magnetic resonic imaging. Knowledge. The human spirit’s image can now be captured, up to 30 mins after death, via special electro-magnetic resoning. The science behind our faith is insanely rich with measures right withon our own reach! We simply DO pull them right out of thin air! It’s that paradigm that each of us can be measured by.Prayer creates spontaneous new energy field around anybody we pray for. Affirmations and personal mantras do it for us, personally. The very word “meditate” from a Hebraic standpoint meant “to mull it over, whisper it on your lips. The Bible states “it will be measured unto you each according to your faith.” Hannah prayed with only the tips of her lips, but she still got Samuel. The connections never the less are astounding, and you very clearly articulated the easiest example of how to stay healthy, and on guard, in this article. FAITH PRAYER AFFIRMATIONS are HEALING MODALITIES. Mustard seeds could bust thru rocky ground and it was that was their greatest characteristic, that Jesus alluded to. Mustard seeds are one of the fewest if not only of the agricultural seeds that will bust thru rock on order to obey it’s destiny. Quantum mechanics stipulates that you have to be excited or energetic about your beliefs and your affirmations. You have to believe so hard that you have the key to unlock ANY door. Jesus said in Hebrew, “keep” on asking, and it will be goven to you, “keep” on seeking, and you will find, “keep” on knocking, and the door will be opened. I believe with my whole heart that Jesus and the Apostle Paul fully operated in a quantum dynamic that they referred to as the “kingdom” of Heaven. In Hebrew, the “kingdom of heaven” is clearly defined as God’s reign/realm, or when the Super-Natural breaks into the natural realm.. ie, miracles. I believe it’s all about shaping and reshaping our paradigms. And the Bible says we’ve been given “more” power, to crush anything and everything at our feet. Mary crushed Satan’s very head with her heel, after all.
Thank you, I had fretted so much about being told that I didn’t have enough “Faith” I have talked to OUR LORD, many times about healing and was it true, that I didn’t have enough faith that’s why I hadn’t been healed…So I asked GOD to increase my faith… He recently put in my mind about faith like a mustard seed.. so I looked up what mustard seed plants looked like and was surprised that they spread everywhere. I had it in my mind that they were tall bushes, but no…. and yes those plants pushing through hard ground etc. had helped me understand about persevereance, in prayer and not giving up about anything..GOD DOESN;T GIVE UP ON US! HE IS ALLWATS FAITHFUL..
Submit to God ~ Resist the devil and he will flee ~
Thank you so very much Mr. Dave!
I had severe back pain approximately 8 or 9 years ago that lasted about 5 or 6 years. Recently the pain returned and also the memory of it. I am again warring against this thing, be it physical or spiritual……
This could have also been prayed over in a different way…by breaking off any curses, voodoo, or spells..to me that is what the symptoms seemed like…also..why are you calling it SELF healing?… It just healing in Jesus name..we just do the declaring. It does say in Acts and the Gospels that the disciples healed many in Jesus name…we are to heal the sick cast out demons in Jesus name…but the phrase “self healing” ?!?
Dave is calling it self- ealing in this instance because he is praying over himself and not somebody else, like he usually does
For the first few years when I got started healing the sick, I still got colds like always. But I laid my hands on many people who were healed.
The thing about having faith for yourself is that you have to get the focus off of the sickness, which is a little harder when you are the one sick! But the first time I was healed with nobody else praying for me was when I was singing to the Lord. I have been healed a few times that way.
One I was healed of an injury when I was giving words of knowledge to people. I felt a heat on my elbow and thought it was a word of knowledge. Then I realized that this time, I was being healed!
One of the best things that you can do if you need to be healed of something, is to keep going and ministering healing to others, regardless of your condition.
When I was young, I would routinely contract an illness the Dr’s called “gastroenteritis” or “stomach flu.” I acquired this routinely – every year – throughout grade school, Jr. High and High school. As I grew into adulthood, it even hospitalized me several times – well, that and food poisoning. Somewhere after my mid-twenties, it wained, perhaps two or three times in a decade or less as I got older. All that to say, I’m very familiar without the stomach flu feels; from inception, in the throws of illness and when it’s subsiding into healing.
The Lord began teaching me about healing two or three years ago – or should I say, that’s when I opened up to the possibilities there-of. It began after my wife was hospitalized due to a migraine induced TIA (stroke). Up to that point, she’d suffered from debilitating migraines her whole life, was on prophylactics and bed ridden two or three days a week.
A year or so after getting her healed of her migraines, I woke up one night with the onset of the stomach flu. Upset stomach, fever, chills, nausea – the whole nine yards. I prayed over myself, commanding the bacteria and/or virus to die. And it did. The fever broke, the nausea left and my stomach returned to normal – with no further symptoms the next day.
This has happened two or three times since, with the same actions and results. The last time it happened, my wife was still awake, so I enlisted her help because it wasn’t going away fast enough for my liking. 🙂
Pray for Me Minister of God, I always experience pain in both of My kidneys. And my private part always has rash. I believe that by Jesus stripes we are heald.
I’m praying for you Thabi.
Thabi, as I read your post it really touched me and I have also prayed for you. God bless you
I am standing on God’s word for restoration of my hips. I would greatly appreciate your prayers. Thank you, Suzanne
I’m praying, Suzanne.
My girlfriend, Yesenia, has experienced repeated abuse, as well as Fibromyalgia and debilitating back and neck pain. Throughout all of it, she remains the biggest believer and has the most love for Jesus than any person I have ever met. Through all of her pains and setbacks, she continues to be a wonderful mom to all of our children. Please pray for her so that she can have some relief and hopefully rid herself of all of her pains and demons. Tank you. God Bless.
I’m praying for her, Sean.
Yes Sean certainly praying for her. I, am not her, but I have that awful Fibromylgia afflicting me. so sad for her and what a brave lady! It is wonderful that you understand and she has you supporting her. FOD BLESS YOU BOTH AND YOUR FAMILLY!
Hello Praying Medic, the testimony of your battle with the demon spirit of herniated disc pain is very interesting. I too, have had pains come upon me in the middle of the night, that seem exactly like a real malady or organ pains. At times, I thought I was having a kidney pain, gallbladder pain, brain tumor pain, anything and everything the enemy threw at me, I imagined the worse. Thank God for my faith- filled wife who would pray over me and I would instantly calm down.
I’m glad I read this article on self healing, because it helped me see, that, I am fighting against these spirits that mimic real pains and that I must rebuke them in Jesus name. Please pray that I may not give in to these lies…and pray that I may be healed of Low Testosterone in my body so that I don’t have to take anymore injections.
Thank you and God bless.
Cleaning up your environment / life is important too. If someone has occult objects in their home, perhaps souvenirs bought in ignorance, they are unknowingly opening the door to those spirits to afflict them. Repenting of known sin is essential. For example, if you are in a serious relationship, but have not gotten married, then repenting of fornication is an important step to healing. Not saying that this is any better or worse than sins such as gossip or bitterness, but it is important not to have a revolving door situation, where you chuck the thing out and then invite it back in. Obviously someone may need more insight as to what is causing the problem, before they can do anything, but where someone knows what is ungodly in their life, they need to do their best to stop it. It is not unlike someone with a lung disease going back and smoking and then being surprised that they get sick again. Root causes also have to be dealt with and holiness really helps towards good health, even though it isn’t the only factor.
Loved the Sid Roth interview! Shame it wasn’t several times longer! : )
This is an eye opener. thank you.
Yes! One time I tore my Achilles and went up for prayer. God healed it that moment however after some time it came back. I knew it was not suppose to be there because “he who the son sets free is free indeed” I put my hands on my heal and prayed and rebuked the spirit affecting it and nothing happened and after a few minutes I repeated the process and then again. After several times the pain went away and I asked God why did it take so long? why not the first time. He said because my word says resist the devil and he will flee. He wanted to teach me to resist. Another time the Lord showed me with the same injury after it was healed the first time at church. I was at work and doing the same thing I do everyday but I could tell I was being overly cautious and worried or fearful of something but I didn’t know what it was. Then stepping out of my truck the foot pain began to come back. I put my hands on my foot and prayed and nothing happened so I asked the Lord what is going on now with my foot Lord, you healed it long ago? He told my I was dealing with a spirit of fear all day long. I once again put my hand on my foot and prayed and rebuked the spirit of fear and told it to go and never come back proclaiming what the Lord had done for me already. Instantly I felt a presence massaging my foot and was healed from that moment forward. The Lord showed my that the demons are attracted to fear. It is a beckon that says “hey over hear” sometimes you may be dealing with just an injury that happens because of life and sometimes we may be dealing with a injury and a demon. We must discern the spirits.
I think people get sick so often cuz of the spirit of fear….fear is sin, the opposite of trusting in God. I believe that when we sin, the demons can enter our bodies a lot more easily, because it’s a low vibration, and they are attracted to anything negative and of low vibration. They cannot mess with us when we are happy and content. Most people don’t realize that being in fear is a sin.
I have lived with fear my whole life and it has spiralled out of control. I am sick with evil spirits and I ask you to please pray for me and my family. I have seven children. I have felt like giving up and wallow in self pity. Praying for strength to step out of bondage.
Dear Barbara,
I lived in fear for many years myself, and because I have known the healing and deliverance of the Lord Jesus Christ, I am moved to pray for you.
Though you have been afraid in the past, you do not have to fear today. If you have not asked Jesus Christ to forgive you of your sins, then ask Him now to come into your heart and forgive you and wash you clean. He promised that s/he who comes to Him, He will not in any way cast out. So once you ask Him in, and you have confessed your sins, you are now born again.
The devil and his imps no longer have authority to bring you fear. Then say, “All evil spirits, you are commanded to leave in Jesus name!” They must go. You may need to say it a few times if some are stubborn, but they don’t have a legal leg to stand on now.
Jesus wants you free, and I pray that you will stand in your faith and watch to see how the Lord will deliver you!
Amen
I don’t know if I would classify that as healing yourself..more like deliverance from a tormenting demon…and yes we can have deliverance from demonic torment by praying over ourselves, I have had to do this numerous times. Especially when the Lord took me through a season of learning about the dark side and witch craft. I think the reason the Lord doesn’t always give us healing or deliverance when we pray, but when others pray over us, is so that we don’t become self-sufficient, We need the Body, we are not an island in and of our selves. We need one another and their help and perspective. No one person has all the answers.
Just what I have learned in my journey with the Holy Spirit.
I enjoy your books. I need healing but cannot reach you by phone. Please pray for me that I may be healed of depression and anxiety. Thank you and God bless you. Keep up the good work.
I’m praying for you Sue.
praying medic my name is cecil. ive been a christian from age 24up to now at age 64. ive had many supernatural experiences with the lord ,but nothing consist.other than spending a lot of hours praying tongues.I am at the end of reading both of your books.the more I read the more i feel the need to be around like minded christians.i can’t share what you teach with other because they are set in the way they were taught in the past .many of the things you teach, I ve had a knowing in my spirit about for years.I wish I had people in the area where i llive that i could talk to and learn from to satisfy the hunger that I have for the fullness of God.
i have hundreds of friends on Facebook who discuss these things every day. If you’d like, you can join us. My profile can be found by following this link: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002007115110
Reading all of the comments has truly touched me. It is by divine intervention that I was watching ISN and saw “the praying medic”. Reading the books ordered that night has given me the will to continue praying for people as Nurse even though I don’t always see results. Partly because many of them I don’t see again to know if they’ve been healed. I Will Continue To Knock And Continue to seek this knowing what Gods Will is! To have His people healed! And we are all His. As far as praying for myself…I was riding in the car a week ago and started to feel this horrible throbbing pain in my left wrist. I remembered what Dave said in one of his books about commanding the spirit of pain to leave. I even looked at my wrist in disbelief because the pain was so intense that I whimpered. Under my breath I commanded that the spirit leave knowing nothing was wrong with my wrist. Within seconds the pain left and has not returned.! Our creator had us in mind when he made us, from having the ability to enjoy food, and finding pleasure in touch. Why wouldn’t he want us to be free from pain, sadness and broken hearts. Thank you for giving those of us in health care a continued confidence and renewed love for people the way that Gods sees them!
I am a nursing student. I pray for some patients emotionally aspect and spiritually but will like to add praying for their healing i believe God is showing me since I stumbled upon “praying medic!” please pray though that my own physical ailments be healed, such as gastrointestinal damages and intolerant to lot of foods and chronic viral infection in body. also pray for my husband he stays delivered from drugs, psychiatric illness, and venous stasis. i know this is a long list.
I have already been delivered by Jesus of mental health issues, post traumatic stress disorder symptoms, and the list goes on! God has been teaching me more about physical healing and this interesting seeing as i was about to go into nursing!!! whenever He wants to teach me something.. like right before I got the gift of speaking in tongues it starts popping up everywhere and then i start wanting that gift.. and sure enough he made a opportunity through which i received it. i know you’re busy but thanks if you get to reading this!
I like this post, because your book Craziest Adventures With God (1) raised the same question for me. You mentioned a door being left open for the two old guys, depression and suicide to wander in. You also mention commanding the spirit of pain to leave. I have so many things wrong with me. Even the diagnosed conditions have no medical solutions. Polycystic kidney disease, celiac, & high cholesterol. I just try to live as healthy as I can. I get irritated with friends whose only real concern about my health is to sell me MLM cures.
I felt the Holy Spirit talking to me at that part of the book. Not only did I leave the door open, but I even welcomed those evil spirits in! I was so frantically looking for a reason why I felt so bad, that I self diagnosed myself with all kinds of stuff. It’s time to kick toes unwelcome visitors out! And close that door!
I agree; same thing happened with me. I opened the door of opportunity to evil spirits waiting to capitalize on my misfortunes of health. And boy did they take over! I went from having some real medical issues, to thinking I had many other things wrong with me. I began to waver in my belief, trust and confidence on God. And the enemy brought me down with many lies. But praise God that I am on top again!!!
Thank you, Jesus, for your Holy Ghost power and authority. To God be the Glory!!!
How do I know that I have the holy spirit in the first place to be able to heal? Sometimes I feel like I don’t have it
I am currently reading your book Divine Healing Made Simple and find it so interesting that I’ve read almost half of it in one sitting. I’ve always wanted to be a healer but thought it was something a person was anointed to do. Reading your book has given me so much hope. I hope the remaining book answers some of my questions I have but one I would really like answered now is ….. Is it possible for you to heal someone long distance or does your healing work with touch?
It’s very easy to heal over distances. I do it every day. Just pray the same way you would if the person were with you.
I have done this,sometimes they are healed,but myself no.i don’t know why,as I hAve faith,I believe JESUS HEALS US…. BEEN ILL FOR SOMANY YEARS DAVE,YOU MAY REMEBER EVERYTHING,I HAVE TOLD YOU,ABOUT MYSELF..I’M IN AUSTRALIA..My our LORD CONTINNUE TO HEAL OTHERS,ME TO THANK YOU LORD! I TRUST,BELIEVE YOU YOUR DAUGHTER TRISH HALE
I’m JUST learning about faith healing. I’ve always thought that faith healing was only for biblical times. It’s amazing what I’ve been reading on the subject. Can’t wait to see what the Holy Spirit will do as I build my faith on healing.
You go, man!
Yes, I have experienced the same things and funnily enough, just this morning there has been a battle going on with my lower back. Nice reminder!
This is all strange to me! I was led to Praying Medic by God. No doubt! Through very unusual series of events! Now, I am in a healing ministry. Who would have thought? I purchased 3 of your books and have been blown away! I teach in prison. One day after reading in your book Hearing God’s Voice, on the way to the unit, I prayed all the way there for God to open my ears, mind, heart, and anything else so I could hear his instruction. When I got to my class (I retired and now substitute) I found I was to take my class to the library. While there I found The Screwtape Letters by CS Lewis and BAM! God spoke directly to me in one of the letters: “….what the body does affects the souls”. In less than a week I have changed my eating and drinking habits (too much diet soda) and joined a class yesterday, Thanksgiving Day at our church on “Run for God” that I found out about last Sunday. Class starts December 1st. I have started praying with folks at church, (church of Christ) our food bank, and at Krogers! I’m talking laying on of hands praying for healing and God is giving me some results. I am now praying for healing for myself so I can better help others. Very exciting! Thank you Praying Medic!
So glad to hear the books have helped. You. Thanks for dropping by!
Please pray for me to be healed. Glory be to The Father, The Son, and The Holy Spirit. Thanks for praying for others and caring. Wish the world was full of more compassionate people. Thank You.
I’m praying for you, Shane.
Please pray for lump in my left breast…don’t know what it is or cause..need divine healing.. am surrounded by unbelievers.
I’m praying for you, Carolyn.
Prayed for your healing Carolyn! May God heal you with His Mighty Right Hand!
Carolyn I had a word of knowledge about a lump in a left breast just yesterday and I gave it on facebook. I just saw this in my inbox because I commented earlier in this thread!
So I speak LIFE right through your body right now in Jesus name.
I command that lump to dissolve and disappear. That every bit of tissue would be healthy and whole.
Dear Carolyn Milam,I’ m praying right now,beleiving that this lump,is healed by Jesus Christ,….A,miracle for Carolyn please LORD! thankyou as I’m praying in Jesus’s name,the name above every name! ps I,really understand being surrounded by non Chistians..love,prayers Trish Hale from Australia.
I have had burning nerve pain in the left side of my head and left face and in my left upper teeth and left lower teeth and left upper gums and left lower gums as well as left-sided neck muscle tightness/muscle spasms and head tightness/muscle spasms for about 8 and 1/2 years. Called neuropathic pain. Have some longstanding emotional issues. Had trauma as a teen. Have difficult marriage. Please pray for my healing.
Praying for your healing, Lee.
How do you discern if your physical symptoms are caused by a medical condition vs an evil spirit ?
If the symptoms improve or leave with prayer and then return, it’s a reliable sign that they are caused by an evil spirit.
Hi Dave! Can you please pray for my husband who is still fighting rectal cancer. The cancer has moved around his body. I will try also as I’ve read people can do it. His name is John P.
I am praying for his healing.
Lots of people needing healed from physical ailments. I would like to ask for a healing of a relationship between my grown son and myself. He married a gal that was very insecure when he met her. Her baggage has been and still is, after having known her 10 years, a roadblock to the relationship between her and I, and obviously affects my son’s relationship with me.
I knew after having met her mother, that there would be problems with a relationship with her and I. Even if I had had the opportunity to share my concerns with my son before they married, what could I have even said that would have improved the situation? I have a background in nursing. I would have liked to at least tried to prepare him for what he was signing up for.
For me, the past 10 years have been like watching and waiting for the explosion to happen and not being able to do a thing about it. Well, it came. We see our grandchildren from time to time, but are not allowed to have one on one time with the 2 year old. The younger one is about 6 weeks old. They all live 10 minutes from us, with her parents.
I have had multiple conversations with my son since before the babies came. ( I am very limited to what I am allowed to talk to my daughter in law about) The only time she ever addressed any relationship issues or baby visiting concerns was in response to a letter I wrote to both of them. She reacted poorly. I was kind and truthful and careful with my words in that letter. If she had ever wanted a good relationship with me, she would have tried way before then
. I am the type of person who believes in talking and trying to work things out. I don’t lie or hide things. I raised my boys the same way. I don’t know of anything else to do but talk and pray. We’d sure like to have a fun happy time with our grandchildren.
Hi, Becky. I am praying for a change in the tone of your relationships. I would also suggest emotional healing.